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Dear Ms. Reba,
I am 45 years old and have been separated from my wife for almost a year.
Even though my divorce is not final, I have been dating several woman.
I have been having the time of my life. I feel like a teenager again.
On the one hand, I feel like I would be stuck in a rut and wasting my life
if I settled down in an serious relationship right now. On the other hand,
I would like to move to another level with this woman. What should I do?
Signed, Confused
Dear Confused,
Half of all marriages in the United States end up in divorce. No matter
what the circumstances it is never easy to divorce. The letting go and
moving on with your life is a process that needs to be worked through.
What to do?
First, when in doubt, don’t, no matter what it is. Don’t rush into anything.
Communicate with the woman you are growing to love. Tell her just what
you told me. You will know what she is made of if once you communicate
how you are feeling she accepts it maturely.
We all want to love and be loved. So it is OK to love this woman just take
your time and enjoy life.
Life is short so yes, love a lot but be kind to yourself first. © 2003 Rebecca Maloney
All Rights Reserved.
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